When I was pregnant, I pictured delivery coming in the 42nd week. I don't know why, but I always imagined having to fight off an induction and let my baby come in her own time. And come in her own time she did! Only opposite the way I had prepared for. I had put very little thought into having a baby before 40 weeks, let alone at 36. Not having a plan is one major reason I wanted to become a doula.
I needed another person in the room while my baby was whisked away by the NICU team. I so desperately wanted to send my husband to be with our baby and watch over her while they worked. At the same time I was longing for his support as I shook in fear in the hospital bed. He couldn't be two places at once, and I selfishly asked him to stay. Oh how I wish I had a plan for this, but it really never crossed my mind.
Because of this, I have done away with the standard 38 week on call period. I have decided to go on call for my clients when they sign my contract. I couldn't imagine missing a preterm birth, because I wasn't prepared to attend at 36 weeks. It makes a life a little more hectic as I plan, and forces me to have a very reliable back up if I ever want to leave town, but it certainly eases the mind of a client who doesn't know when her baby will arrive.
Alecia Miller, CD
This short and sweet post is another addition to the World Doula Week Blog Challenge. Click the image below for more information!
I needed another person in the room while my baby was whisked away by the NICU team. I so desperately wanted to send my husband to be with our baby and watch over her while they worked. At the same time I was longing for his support as I shook in fear in the hospital bed. He couldn't be two places at once, and I selfishly asked him to stay. Oh how I wish I had a plan for this, but it really never crossed my mind.
Because of this, I have done away with the standard 38 week on call period. I have decided to go on call for my clients when they sign my contract. I couldn't imagine missing a preterm birth, because I wasn't prepared to attend at 36 weeks. It makes a life a little more hectic as I plan, and forces me to have a very reliable back up if I ever want to leave town, but it certainly eases the mind of a client who doesn't know when her baby will arrive.
Alecia Miller, CD
This short and sweet post is another addition to the World Doula Week Blog Challenge. Click the image below for more information!